I would love to go through the history of valentine’s day since its the normal procedure but the definitions of Valentine’s day are just so many with others contradicting others. To void this stress of trying to pick out which definition is most appropriate, I will define it from my own point of view without looking at its origin.
Valentine can be looked as a period or season which brings lots of love, gift exchange and a strategic period for business dealers. During this period we notice lots of Pettit traders who join the business line so as to make small profits from items like postcards, frames with love messages, roses and just so many others.
valentine’s day now on its part is the long-awaited lovers day which might have pushed some people to break banks just to give prestigious and appealing gifts to their valentines. This day is the proper gift exchange day which is spiced with couples seen at almost every romantic venue or spot in red making you actually feel the love season ah! How romantic isn’t it?
I have really never taken this day seriously I guess because never had someone back then who swept off my feet on this particular day. Seriously hoping this year will be different for me too because I found love that totally accepts me.
So many people judge their value in their relationships on this day while others are receiving their treasured packages, others are wishing they could get just a rose oh!
In as much as this day comes with much positive vibes for others, it is the opposite for others. You will find broken relationships after valentine’s
day due to no gifts or kind gestures. You find girls crying others getting hurt because they got no gifts or can’t be with their partners on this day. So you can now see that this day comes with good vibes for others such as engagement proposals, new cars, gadgets, lovely jewelry and a lot more while others got no reaction at all.
Let’s look at some ideas that could make your val’s day different this year. Hope you are ready to add some spice to your val’s dis year!!
A home treat is the first thing that keeps coming to mind remember I told you I never took val’s day seriously and have never celebrated but guess what? am on it this year and this particular special form of intimacy is what I look forward to just can’t wait to experience this. Ever thought of how it’s going to feel in a house full of petals, a dining table with rose flowers, a good simple meal, a bottle of red and white wine? A white bedspread with red petals all over it and a sweet message on it like I want to have you as valentine forever? Ah! I just can’t wait to experience this myself this year.
You both dress in the usual “Red” and have a private dinner at the comfort of your home with some slow good music that permits you to express how lucky you are to be sited there together and having the most memorable moments of your life. After the meal a slow lovely dance which gonna help you connect the more to each other don’t forget hugs go a long way to increase affection and emotions towards lovers.
Do something together that you have wished you could do. It could be going to fish together, it could be going for skiing, getting two tickets to go watch a movie or watch a game together this could be so interesting. It’s always fun and it brings a special feeling doing these things with your partner and I know it’s not really easy for partners now to have the time to do these things together since the hustle has become the order of the day.
Everyone is findings ways of making more money so as to live a comfortable life but then I still believe making time for your partner on a special day like valentine day could show some sort of dedication and extra love give it a try with any of these on valentines and add some flavor to your relationship.
A picnic could never be a bad idea picnics were treasured and wanted to be done by everyone before but now we got trapped by great meals calling us from restos, new snacks, shopping moors, etc and we have totally forgotten how interesting and romantic picnics are. Plan a picnic to a calm area where nature can freely hear your heart desires, witness your love and grant your heart desires.
Get a mat, red petals to spread around the area you both will be seated and now for your picnic basket get a bottle of red wine or white wine why not both? some snacks, apples, chocolate you can add whatever you like to the basket but don’t forget to spice your basket with red ribbon and a beautiful red rose. Take an outdoor game too along with you so that there is non stop fun. Got all these ready? then give it a try with a valentine picnic and see how special your valentine turns to be.
A couple massage could be so fabulous go together for a massage to spice up your val its but obvious that everyone is so busy so on a love season and a special day like valentine it’s only necessary to make out time and book for a couple massage trust me it’s going to be so romantic; try this out I know how badly most women like getting accompanied by their partners to a spa or salon but they’re too busy so husbands or our lovely partners give us this treat on this special day and you won’t regret. This treat will go a long way to prepare and get you set for the rest of the day.
Take your partner or val to a restaurant where you both share lovely past memories about. It might have been where you had your first date or you shared a memory there that you both can’t seem to forget. It’s a special day and taking your partner to a special place like this will be another sweet memory and its going to be so romantic while keeping that glow on your faces.
What are your vals ideas to making it different this year?